Wednesday, July 24, 2013

Day 66, 67, 68, 69, 70: A Traumatizing Week to Say the Least

Day 66, 67, 68, 69, 70: A Traumatizing Week to Say the Least

Word of the Day(s): танцевать [tantsevat']: Dance

Day 66, the 17th of June. It was our 10 month wedding anniversary! (Just had to throw that in there. Yes, I celebrate every month. And yes, we are still newly weds, so it is okay.) Quite a few things happened on the 17th. Max stayed home from work because he wasn't feeling too well and I had the typical homework load to tackle. As I was sitting and doing my homework and Max was doing some work on his laptop, we heard a loud screeching noise outside of our apartment. We hear these screeching noises all day long because of all of the crazy Russian drivers passing by the major intersection outside of our apartment, so it doesn't really phase us anymore. But, when we heard this particular noise, we both looked at each other and as soon as we heard the crash, we ran to our balcony. We have seen our fare share of accidents, but this one was different. It was more traumatizing than ever. As we both looked out the balcony window, we realized that it was a motorcycle accident. The man on the motorcycle was laying on the ground, screaming so loud that we could hear it clearly from our apartment. I do not do well in these situations. I hate to see people hurt like that. So, naturally I began to cry and hide myself behind Max because I didn't want to look anymore. After some time, I calmed down and looked again to see if he was alright. Luckily he was wearing all leather and a helmet, so he was able to stand up without any serious injuries. Man was I relived to see him walking. Needless to say I was traumatized by this experience and told Max that he would never buy a motorcycle. Here are a few pictures that we took:




What we think happened: In Russia it is a HUGE deal if you cross a double white line. We believe the guy in the car was going the wrong way down a one way street connected to the major intersection (based on how the car was positioned) and went to quickly cross all lanes of traffic (even though it was illegal and there was a double white line). While this guy was crossing, we are assuming the motorcyclist went to pass someone up and the car hit him because he didn't see him. Hopefully that all makes sense. 

After experiencing this accident, I went back to doing my homework and Max continued with what he was doing. We periodically checked to see the progress of the accident, but it took hours before any real progress was made. When an accident occurs in Russia it is against the law to move any of the cars/motorcycles involved and it takes forever to clean the accident up. There is always a bunch of paperwork involved and other steps that they must take. Just thinking about it stresses me out. 

Later that day, we took some food to Valentina, a homeless lady that we have been helping out lately. We had asked her on Sunday what her favorite food was and she said potatoes. She also requested a sweet drink, so we brought her some Sprite. It was really great to serve her and see her smile when we brought the food. She talked to Max and me (mostly Max because he is the one that speaks Russian) for about an hour and then we went on our way. 


Day 67, the 18th of June. A typical day in Moscow, Russia. 

Day 68 was the 19th of June. Another traumatizing day to say the least. Max and I were about ready to go to bed and I decided to go close the blinds. As I walked over to the blinds, I saw a man with a large beer belly looking out of his window. I didn't think much of it, but as I was closing the blinds, he took off his towel and yes...I ran away from from window as fast as possible and buried my head in the bed. Never again will I assume that I am safe looking outside of my window. 

Day 69 was the 20th of June: my last English lesson with Sonya. In the morning I took the metro and then the bus to her apartment. When I got there, I saw her usual outgoing, smiling self and began right away with the lesson (which is basically just repeating words in English and playing with her). She showed me her baby brother by pointing and saying, "baby." I could see how excited she was to have a new little brother. It was really cute. After talking about her little brother, we walked over to the bedroom/playroom and began to play with a bunch of different toys. I said the names of the toys out loud in English and she would repeat after me from time to time. We also outlined each other's hands in red marker. She had a lot of fun doing this, so we talked about fingers and our hands for a little bit. When our time together came to an end, we sang the clean up song and picked up all of the toys scattered around us. It is fun to hear her sing along with me in English. It shows me that she was making some progress. Right before I left, we took a picture together and Natalya (her mom) gave me a picture in a frame as well as some chocolates. 

Day 70 was the 21st of June. Friday! Marcus was having a teachers bowling day, so we decided to go. When we got there we checked in with the group, said our hello's, and went to get our bowling shoes. We told the lady our size and she brought out our shoes. We were given these really thin booties to protect our feet from the fungi growing out of the shoes, but to be honest, they didn't do much. I still put them on and pretended they were doing something to give me some peace of mind (they don't clean or even spray the shoes). As I slipped on the shoes they were still a little warm from the previous bowler, but I ignored it and got ready to get my bowl on. We played a few games and hung out with some friends. I didn't score above 90, but it was still really fun to be out and about. After bowling for a few hours, we had to get a ticket to return our  bowling shoes. I don't really know the point of the ticket because we didn't even have to get a ticket to get the shoes, but whatever. After we left the bowling alley, we made our way to the red square. I wanted to participate in this online activity that BYU-Idaho (the university I am currently attending online) put together. Everyone around the world attending BYU-Idaho online could send in a video of them dancing in front of a well recognized place in the area they are living. I obviously chose the red square because everyone recognizes that right away. As Max recorded me dancing, no one even looked at me. Like I said earlier, Russians are not phased by ANYTHING. It was fun though. After dancing around, we went and got some Sbarro's. While Max was paying for the food, I went to go use the restroom. Usually when you use any public bathroom in Russia, you have to pay, but the person at Sbarro's told us it would be free. So, I went to the bathroom, but when I got there I couldn't open the door. It looked like it was just stuck, so I pulled harder and harder. Eventually someone from the other side opened the door. I finished going to the bathroom and went to leave, but the door wouldn't open again. I started pushing the door, but it still wouldn't budge. After a few minutes I got a little bit more freaked out that it wouldn't open because I did not want to be stuck in that bathroom. So, naturally, I got a little bit of a running start and threw my body at the door a few times. You could see the door open a little bit, but it wouldn't open for me to get out. After some time, I tried to call Max. He didn't answer. So, I looked around and noticed a button. I pushed it and tried to open the door. Still didn't work. Man was I getting nervous. Then...a person finally opened the door from the other side. I got out of there as fast as possible. Turns out there was a magnetic lock holding the door closed. I needed a code to get in and I had to push the button to get out. Max told me that I almost broke down the door, frame and all. He was watching the whole time. After that little experience, we left the restaurant and went to watch all the fancy cars go by. We sat on a ledge right next to a major intersection by the red square and ate our pizza. At one point the truck that drives around to wash the streets was turning towards us. We realized that it was coming our way when it was almost too late to move. We grabbed our stuff and ran away from the ledge we were sitting on by the road. Luckily we were only sprinkled by the soapy water (Yes, Russians wash their streets everyday, many times a day. My grandmother told me that if they cared about cleaning themselves as much as the streets, the world would be a better place. I agree. haha). 

Here are some pictures of the day...





Here is the video that Max and I made: 



It was also our last time visiting the Red Square. Sad day. 




More to come! :)
                             







Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Day 59, 60, 61, 62, 63, 64, & 65: A Broken Car & My Emergency Pack

Day 59, 60, 61, 62, 63, 64, & 65: A Broken Car & My Emergency Pack

Word of the Day(s):  машина [Mashina]: Car

Okay, so I know it has been a long time since I have written anything. In my defense, we were moving from Russia back to the states and getting to know Spain and Paris a little better. It has been a crazy few weeks and I have much to write about and catch up on. So, bare with me because I am going all the way back to the 10th of June, where I left off.

Day 59 was the 10th of June. Not much happened, so I will just skip the boring details about my homework and go to the 11th of June.

Day 60 was the 11th of June. So remember the couple Max and I met in church on Sunday that were just visiting Russia for work? Well, we went out to lunch with them. They took us to this really great restaurant that they claimed had great pizza (we are always looking for great pizza in Russia because even just good pizza is hard to find here. They never put enough sauce on the pizza or they replace the sauce with other condiments like mayonnaise). The place they took us was really good! Definitely better pizza! As we were talking and eating, I looked out the window momentarily because there is never a dull moment in Russia and noticed these three guys that were pushing these large carts uphill. As I looked closer, I noticed that they were pushing different broken off sections of a car on these carts. It looked like the car just got in a wreck and they decided to push the parts up the hill to a shop to get them mended together. SO funny. Take a look...


Notice how these Russian guys to the side are not even phased by what is going on. That is Russia for you. 



Okay, I have to share a video in regards to Russians and their reactions to things. They are so used to all of the craziness around them that things don't phase them. Remember the meteor that hit Russia. Yeah, well check this out. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2D3ci1MvHv8 

Haha...enough said. 

After lunch, we went home and Max got ready to leave for Ukraine for the rest of the week because he had a few meetings to go to. I didn't end up going because I had a lot of homework to focus on and I had a few lessons later in the week with Sonya. After he left, I did some more homework and then watched Friends for the rest of the night. Confession: I am addicted to Friends. 

Day 61 was the 12th of June. The first day without Max in Russia. Kind of weird to not have him around. I definitely missed him. My day consisted of working on one of the many papers due in the near future...

... and working on other homework that was due by the end of the week. And yes, eating Macaroni & Cheese. This was my emergency pack of Macaroni & Cheese. I lasted quite a while before opening it when you think of the time we were gone as a whole, but in a sense, I didn't even last one day without Max! haha 

Side note: This type of Macaroni is the best. I have come to this conclusion because the cheese gets stuck in the little cracks of the noodles and then surprises you with a burst of flavor. Unbeatable.
That night, I watched some more Friends and also some fireworks outside my window. The fireworks were right over by the red square. I swear, Russians love their fireworks. I hear them almost every night! 


The clouds looked like mountains! I miss them so much. 
Anyway, I survived my first day without Max. Kind of scary thinking that I was in Russia all by myself, but I was safe and sound in our little studio apartment. 

Day 62 was the 13th of June. My second day away from my love. I learned about the Roman ruins in my Foundations to the World class. So interesting and amazing in so many ways! 




I also FaceTimed Lauren and of course Coconut! I apologize in advance to Lauren for the exposure of these pictures, but I just had to. :) 

The many faces of the beautiful Lauren! :))

I also went to meet up with Sue (met them on Sunday and went out to lunch with them to that pizza place) to take her to see Lenin's tomb. When I got there, the middle of red square was all blocked off due to some type of event. Sue and I had planned to meet up right in front of Lenin's tomb, but no one could even get over there because of the gates that were up. I had a phone, but she didn't, so there was no way of getting a hold of her. This was a big issue because the red square is always really busy and I thought all hope was lost of finding her. I decided to get in the line to get into Lenin's tomb and look for her there. As it was my turn to enter into the tomb, I saw someone that looked like her walking out. I stepped to the side to see if it was her. I didn't recognize her at first, but then she recognized me and called out my name. It was a miracle! After talking about how crazy it was that we ran into each other, we left (because I had already gone to see Lenin a few weeks ago) and went to Chili's for lunch. We spent about 3 hours in Chili's just talking. It was nice to be able to talk to someone in English and have a friend, even if it was just for a day.  


We said our goodbyes and I took the metro home. As I walked back to the apartment, I grabbed a flyer from this one guy that stands outside all day handing these flyers out for the dentist. I did this in honor of Max because every time Max passes by this guy, he takes a flyer. We wonder if he will ever notice that Max takes one every day. haha I sent this picture to Max so he knew I was carrying out his tradition! 



Day 63 was the 14th of June. Again, not a very exciting day. Just consisted of homework, Friends, and missing Maximo. 

Day 64 was the 15th of June. The day Max came home! His train arrived in the morning and he came straight home. It was really great to be with him again. To celebrate we went to Chili's! It was so good when I went with Sue that I wanted to go back! On our way there, we stopped by this REALLY fancy grocery store. No words can describe it. Check it out...


If you can't see, this bottle of wine is 233, 590.10 Rubles. That is over 7,000 dollars. 




After dinner, Max and I went home and went to sleep. Max was really tired from traveling. 

Day 65 was Sunday, the 16th of June. Max and I got ready for church and headed out. When we got there, Max noticed a flyer on the door for BYU-Idaho pathway students. When he pointed it out to me, I immediately recognized the person featured on it. It was Rachel Banaszewski! A girl I knew from back home in Chicago. What are the chances?! I shared it with her and she didn't even know she was on any flyers for the University! Anyway, I just had to get a picture...

Here is a great quote to end this blog post and Sunday with...